During a Presidential campaign, the reason we want to hear about the past experiences of the candidate, is not to learn about their positions on policies. We can learn that from web sites, and voting records. When a candidate ties Seamus to the top of his car and drives 60 mph down the highway we care. We care not because it demonstrates the policies of Mitt Romney about cruelty to animals,
but it teaches us about his character.
When we learned about the elevator for his car to be built in his vacation home, we were not interested in his position on building codes, but instead it conveyed an attitude about spending money, and his character.
When Romney said that he learned all he needed to know from his wife about women’s concerns pertaining to economic issues, we were disappointed. The problem was not that his wife made the decision to stay at home to raise her five children. The problem was that the statement demonstrated that Romney was out of touch with the average American family. Most American mothers work outside the home and worry about the cost of putting food on the table rather than the cost of automobile elevators in their vacation homes.
The disclosure about Mitt Romney’s attack on a gay student in high school, confirms what we already knew about his attitudes regarding homosexuality. We already knew that Sheriff Paul Babeu was forced to resign from his position as the Arizona co-chair of Romney’s campaign because he was gay. We already know about Richard Grenell’s resignation as the expert on foreign policy to Romney’s campaign.
His resignation was not prompted by any position taken on foreign policy, but simply because he was gay. We already knew that Romney thinks homosexuality is “perverse.” .
It was an omen when Mitt Romney appointed Robert Bork as the chairman of his Justice Advisory Committee.
The “advisor,” most trusted by Mitt Romney, to assist in the appointment of U.S. Supreme Court Justices, is someone so extreme in his willingness to restrict civil rights that he was not approved by Republican and Democrats in Congress. We know that Bork is in favor of a constitutional Amendment preventing homosexual marriages.
The story of Romney planning and leading an attack on a gay student in high school conveys all we need to know about his character. Romney didn’t deny the incident happened, but simply said he didn’t remember it. Either he was lying, or the incident was so inconsequential to Romney that it wasn’t worthy of note. Either way the act, and his remarks yesterday were equally unforgivable. When Romney apologized for the incident, his explanation was that high school kids do “dumb things.”
I know about dumb things high school kids do. Dumb things I remember included toilet papering a house. There was the cat we were dissecting in physiology class whose ear was pierced and then adorned with earrings. That was dumb. When my brother mooned the man making pizza behind the 8 x 8 plate glass window by pressing his naked backside against the plate glass window, most people would agree that was pretty dumb. The really dumb thing was that when the butt of my brother and his friend pushed a little too hard on the over-sized glass window, it shattered. Fortunately nobody was hurt by the shards of glass that fell on the sidewalk as they ran away as fast as they could, with their pants around their ankles. Those were high school “pranks”. They were not personal, physical attacks on a student because of his sexual preferences. In hindsight, we look back on high school “pranks” as being rather stupid,… but funny. What Mitt Romney did was neither stupid or funny. At the time, and in hindsight, it was an unforgivable attack of a fellow human being. The attack was frightening because it was an example of just how far Mitt Romney was willing to go to impose his will on others.
The attack on the student by Mitt Romney would be best described as a hate crime. The student didn’t lose his life, but lost his dignity. Cutting the hair of that gay student may not have been physically injurious, but it did permanently injure that person’s sense of safety and security. Mitt Romney didn’t just participate in the attack, but was the organizer and leader. He was the one who cut the boy’s hair, and the scissors came from his pocket. The assault was pre-meditated. Words are insufficient to convey the outrage we feel when one American assaults another because of his race, religion, or sexual preferences. We call it a “terrorist attack” when our sense of life, liberty, and the pursuit of happiness are put in jeopardy. Phillip Maxwell, now an attorney, witnessed the attack in high school and called it “bullying supreme.” He hasn’t forgotten this incident, even though he only observed it, but didn’t participate in it. Mr. Maxwell said:
“When I saw the look on his [Lauber's] face, it was a look I’ll never forget,” … “When you see a victim, the sense of trust betrayed in this boy who was perfectly innocent for being different.”
Contrast Mr. Maxwell’s account to that of Romney. Romney said that IF anyone was offended, he apologized. It was as if Romney couldn’t imagine, even today, that anyone might find this behavior offensive. Romney’s vicious attack on this high school student was outrageous. His remarks yesterday were equally outrageous. Mitt Romney is 65 years old, but he still hasn’t learned the lessons he should have learned in High School. IF anyone wondered whether Romney learned his lesson in High School, we were convinced after his remarks yesterday that he did not. Mr. Maxwell, who didn’t participate in this act of hatred, learned a valuable lesson, and remembers to this day the look on the innocent boy’s face. Mitt Romney can’t even remember committing the heinous act.









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May 11, 2012 at 12:49 pm
Sarah Palin has a serpent's heart
I’m sorry Malia but I have to laugh at your brother. It was dumb but funny. I hope he paid for the damages.
May 11, 2012 at 12:59 pm
malialitman
Sarah Palin has a serpent’s heart,
This brother is a well respected family practitioner and father to five kids, but he still has his sense of humor. When he was an adult, one April fools day he took a ladder out to a field where two giant oil tanks stood and painted on one in giant letters, “Oil” and on the other “Vinegar”. He’s a lot of fun!
May 11, 2012 at 12:58 pm
Just_a_Mote
I don’t claim to be any kind of expert on human development but I believe Romney’s essential nature solidified in early childhood and is immutable. He can’t ‘learn’ his way out of what he is. It is very disturbing to think of him as president.
May 11, 2012 at 1:35 pm
MTinMO
The fact he claims to “not remember” such a physical assault also demonstrates he lacks compassion for the young man he assaulted. He conveniently dismisses the fact that he lead the attack specifically because the boy was “different” and looked “like a homosexual”. And they just couldn’t have that there where Mitt was going to school. I would bet the young man never forgot the attack and never lost the fear instilled by that brutality. And it was certainly brutal to tackle, hold down and cut the boys hair. As the one participant has said (now that he is an attorney) “it was assault and battery, no question”.
I would bet Romney does remember the assault even if he says he doesn’t, but if he doesn’t- that’s even worse. That he wouldn’t remember when he perpetrated a crime against another student demonstrates he doesn’t give a damn about others. The other participants that were admittedly involved haven’t forgotten their part and they have felt bad about their involvement, but to Romney, it’s obviously OK to place that kind of fear in a person and to assault the person and then to forget he had ever done such a brutal act. What a creep, what a bully. I know, those who are preyed upon by bullies never forget.
May 11, 2012 at 2:07 pm
malialitman
MTinMo
Yes, I agree this man should never be put in charge of the free world! Today he’d be suspended from school …at a minimum, and perhaps arrested.
May 11, 2012 at 1:41 pm
GeeJay
Regarding positions on policies, Romney doesn’t have an official position on anything until after he analyzes data collected by his inner circle of associates. The positions he verbalizes depend on who he is talking to and when. He seems to want to be president just to be president – he doesn’t offer anything else. That is why he continuously flip flops.
May 11, 2012 at 2:05 pm
malialitman
GeeJay,
You are exactly right!
May 11, 2012 at 4:41 pm
Beaglemom
I think you’re right and I think his attitude towards governing shows his intellectual laziness. He’s been running for president since 2006 and he’s not learned anything about the world we all live in.
I also think that he has a major character deficit illustrated by his high school bullying (pranks as he’s called them), his business career where his company preyed on troubled businesses to do them in, his choice of carrier for his dog on a long road trip. There is a clear pattern to Mitt Romney’s behavior and it is not a healthy one.
May 11, 2012 at 3:07 pm
ambiguouspw
God help us if he wins the Presidency. I am seriously looking at moving to Canada should he win. I will be physically and emotionally sick if he wins.
May 11, 2012 at 5:04 pm
avahome
I graduated in ’66 from public school outside of Cleve., OH At this time the menfolk were very worried about the draft….and due to fashion and Beach Boys the boys would either be dressed like a “hood” or a “surf”. Middle class America was not worried about homosexuals….we didn’t have a clue.
I don’t remember anyone having long hair(like a girl would) if that is Mitt’s parameter. I guess these boys didn’t worry about the draft, or going to college or cars or money…..they were priviledged far beyond the guys I went to school with. And BTW, the boys that didn’t go to Catholic High Schools came to public schools….and were soo cute to deal with.
May 11, 2012 at 5:41 pm
jadez
gay basher, animal abuser , business destroyer who made his fortune firing workers….and the republican candidate to be president.
unfortunately romney the sociopath is typical of what the establishment wants and supports.
this country is on such a downward spiral that it is fighting just to maintain 3rd world status.
all the nations wealth goes to perpetual war while the people and the infrastructure are decaying.
May 11, 2012 at 8:31 pm
Ryan J. Knight
What an unforgivable ass. I apologize for my language, but Romney strikes me as the same type of individual who used to tease and harass me in high school for being a Goth, and then say it was my fault for exercising my constitutional rights to life, liberty, and happiness which grant me the freedom and right to dress however I wish so long as I don’t violate laws governing public decency. Individuals like him, never find fault with their actions, continuing to blame the victim, and are also the first ones to cry foul when someone pays them back in kind. – RJK
May 11, 2012 at 11:07 pm
malialitman
RJK,
I too used to think Romney wouldn’t be so bad, and the more I know, the more outrageous it seems that he could ever be President!
May 11, 2012 at 9:01 pm
Venefica
As usual, you’ve nailed it, Malia! The more I learn about Romney, the more appalled I am that he could be elected to any office.
P. S. May I request that you use the term “orientation” rather than “preference” when discussing homosexuality? “Preference” implies a taste or whim; a personal choice that’s potentially modifiable. Certainly, we all have sexual preferences. However, homosexuality is a sexual orientation. Thanks!
May 11, 2012 at 11:06 pm
malialitman
Venefica,
I apologize for my choice of words, and I’ll try to use “orientation” from now on. Thanks, I appreciate your help!
May 14, 2012 at 10:23 am
hellonheelz
DSM V — V71.01 Adult Antisocial Behavior aka Sociopath. One does not have to be a serial killer like Ted Bundy. Just a total lack of empathy towards others and no remorse for their actions. Sounds like Mittens to me…
May 14, 2012 at 12:43 pm
malialitman
hellonheelz,
You know that is right!